Introduction: Handling an Unsupportive Manipulative Partner
Are you sick and tired of always being hurt? Well, in this blog I’m going to get into how manipulative people are a pain in the neck. They are not only dishonest, but they also don’t care about how their actions affect others.
I must tell you that breakups are a difficult thing to go through. It is important to know that you are not alone in this and there is a lot of support out there for you. If you’re looking for some advice on how to leave a bad relationship with someone, then this article will help you out. It provides advice on what to do prior to, during, and following the separation.
Manipulative people often manipulate others to get what they want, even if it means lying and being deceitful. “In Sheep’s Clothing” is a book that helps you deal with manipulative people and those who are unsupportive and lazy.
The book is written by Dr. George K. Simon Ph.D., who has been studying manipulative behavior for more than fourteen years. The book is full of examples, case studies, and personal stories.
The book talks about why people who use verbal and emotional manipulation can be difficult to deal with, what you should do if you are in a relationship with someone who manipulates, how to spot a manipulative partner, how to talk back or walk away from someone who is manipulating you and more.
Additionally, I will discuss how you can leave a bad relationship entirely and receive therapy through hypnosis for all the suffering and anguish you experienced there.

Establish Boundaries to Stop the Manipulation
Let me now clarify that setting boundaries come before a breakup. Before you leave the person, you love it’s crucial to take the action of establishing boundaries in your relationship.
Let me explain how setting emotional boundaries help you feel more in charge of your life and how doing so is the greatest method to safeguard your feelings if a relationship ends badly.
Your physical boundaries are simple to express: how near is too close for you?
Is it OK for them to continue being physical such as holding your hands or kissing you?
But discussing the boundaries between the emotional aspect of relationships can be challenging. We frequently wind up chatting about less substantial topics because we lack knowledge about what constitutes intimate topics.
Let your partner know there is a reason if they complain that you aren’t being as honest with them about how you feel any longer. You can try to talk to them about it, but if they ignore you, it might be time to end the relationship because your partner consistently puts their wants before yours.
Know When to Initiate the Breakup with a Liar
There are many reasons why someone might be lying to you. They may have a mental illness, they may not be able to control themselves, or they may be trying to protect you. Regardless of the reason, it is important that you know when it is time for the breakup.
The first step in breaking up with a liar is to know when it is the right time for the breakup. If they are lying about something important, like their feelings for you or their sexual orientation, then it’s probably time for the breakup.
If they are just lying about little things like what happened at work or what they did at their job, then it’s not necessary to initiate the breakup just yet. It’s important to remember that lying is a choice, you can’t force someone into telling the truth.
I know personally that breaking up with a liar is hard, but it can be done. Follow me as I take you through the steps of breaking up with a liar and get your liar to say, “I’m sorry”.
Once you know it’s time for the breakup, then it’s time to initiate the breakup by telling them that you’re going to stop seeing them.
When you’re going to initiate a successful breakup with a liar, it is important that you approach them in an honest and respectful manner. Before initiating the breakup it’s best to be sure of your feelings towards this person and what they are currently doing.
There are a few signs to look out for if you are in the right state of mind. You can tell your feelings have shifted when you start to feel more emotional or withdrawn.
If the person is acting differently than how they normally would with you and it’s not just because of changes in their life, that may be an indication that your relationship isn’t what it used to be. If you are feeling happy, but the person you are with is not, that may be a sign.
You may start to think to yourself that, I’ve been following my intuition and it’s telling me that I need to leave. The relationship isn’t what it used to be, and you no longer feel the same feelings or connection as before. This could be an indication that it’s time for the relationship to end.
Break it off and Leave a Bad Relationship
A breakup is a difficult thing to do. It can be hard to face the person you’ve cared about for so long and tell them that it’s over.
-Think about what you want out of the relationship. What are your expectations? What are your needs? These will help you know what to say when breaking up with someone.
-Breakups often happen after a period, so don’t be too quick to end it if there is still potential for the relationship.
-Be kind and understanding, but firm in your decision.
-It’s important not to lead someone on or have any contact with them after breaking up if you don’t plan on getting back together with them in the future.
-Being honest about your feelings will help you avoid being in a bad situation. If you think you might want to get back together with someone and they are still in love with you, it’s best to not contact them at all until that happens.
-It’s okay to be hurt after a breakup. If someone breaks up with you, it can be very difficult not to feel anger, sadness, or disappointment. It’s important not to let these feelings consume your life and make you bitter toward them.
Breakups are a Difficult Process
Before the breakup, there are some things that you should do with a significant other. If your partner is not willing to end the relationship, then this list may not be for you.
If, however, your partner is willing to end the relationship and you’re ready to move on, then this list will help. The following steps may or may not be necessary depending on how long and how serious the relationship has been if it hasn’t been broken off yet:
If the person is being abusive:
-Tell your partner to stop and if they do not, leave the relationship immediately. Do not try to reason with them, minimize what is happening, or make excuses for their behavior. If your partner does not stop then you should get yourself a lawyer and contact emergency services as soon as you can.
-If it was abusive in the past but things have improved since then, there really isn’t anything else you can do for this specific time. It’s not that your partner is trying to control you, it’s just hard for them to swallow the fact that they are not in control anymore.
-Your partner physically hurt you. You can get a support order as soon as possible. Maybe even call the police or go see a lawyer now.
-Your partner had an affair or sexually assaulted you. This happened in the past and it was an isolated incident. You can get a support order without too much trouble, but you should talk to a lawyer first.
-Your partner used drugs or alcohol secretly and you find out about it. This is seriously something that typically rises to the level of abuse. You can request a support order at any time if you want one.

5 Tips to Help You Leave a Bad Relationship that Hurt You
It might be difficult to know when to leave a partner who has frequently hurt you. The emotional, physical, and mental abuse can be hard to recognize.
It is never easy to get out of a bad relationship, especially one where the other person has hurt you many times. You may be wondering if it is worth it or not.
Here are five tips that might help you decide how best to move forward in your life and get away from this person who has caused you pain and misery repeatedly.
1. Think about what you need. One of the first things to consider is what you need. If you’re hurting emotionally, or mentally and want to leave a bad relationship, contact, them and get support.
It could be anything from financial support while you figure out your next step and build a new life for yourself to safety during difficult times.
You may also require emotional support so communicate with people who can help make sense of your situation and provide empathy during difficult times.
Whatever you need, know what it is, and make sure to communicate that with your partner. You also need to be as clear as possible about what you will do in the future if they don’t cooperate with your requests.
It’s best not to leave any room for misinterpretation or misunderstanding. If you need support, ask them for it. If they refuse, get a therapist, or leave their presence immediately because they are doing their best to make this relationship uncomfortable or unsafe for you.
2. Ask for what you need. Be direct, ask for a certain amount of time or ask if you can take a break to collect your thoughts before continuing your discussion.
Don’t be afraid to let them know if they are uncomfortable in any way, such as their tone of voice or style of speaking.
If they become angry or defensive, don’t react with anger or defensiveness. Continue the discussion where it left off when you are cooled down because there was an interruption.
3. Be respectful and caring toward them, especially when the topic is serious and/or difficult. The person who is being spoken to needs to feel like they are being heard and understood, not judged.
4. Apologies for any mistakes that you make in the discussion, such as misjudging their feelings or forgetting information about them.
5. Ask for their input and suggestions on the topic and offer your thoughts on a way to make progress together. In certain situations, when someone is yelling at you or shouting in an angry tone, it may be appropriate to raise your voice or shout back in response.
When you are raising your voice or shouting back in anger, it is important that you remain calm as well as avoid derogatory language/jabs of laughter directed towards the person.
If the person you are interacting with is having a mental health crisis or is acting in a hasty manner, it is important that you remain calm, be patient and work together to come up with solutions to help the person calm down.
If they are having an episode and threatening you, it is important that you remain calm, be patient and attempt to de-escalate the situation by using non-violent means. If it doesn’t work, then get to safety immediately.
If your partner is having an episode and threatening your safety, it is vital that you call 911 immediately.
If you are wondering, what can you expect from a local counseling service then I will let you know. Most social workers and counselors are trained to work with people over an extended period, to build long-term relationships, and help them develop skills for managing difficult life changes.
They will provide care and support to you in a non-judgmental way, helping you help yourself by suggesting useful coping mechanisms.
They will promote emotional and physical health as well as social connectedness. They will also help you find resources and answer any questions you may have about your rights, entitlements, and responsibilities.
Conclusion: How Hypnosis Can Help You Leave a Bad Relationship
A bad relationship can have a huge negative impact on your mental and physical health. The longer you stay in it, the more damage you will do to yourself. Let us now discuss how hypnosis can help you leave a bad relationship.
In the last few years, there has been an increased interest in the use of hypnosis for therapeutic purposes. It is a great way to help people overcome certain issues that are affecting their lives from anxiety and depression to helping to manage jealousy and finding inner peace with yourself.
People often turn to hypnosis when they want to quit smoking or stop drinking alcohol or quit gambling. But it can also be used for more complex issues like letting go of anger and boosting your confidence and self-esteem.
There are many ways to leave a bad relationship, but the best way is to do it with your head held high. If you want to break up with someone, but don’t want it to be an emotional mess for either of you, then hypnotherapy can help.
With a professional hypnotherapist, you can learn the skills and tools to leave your bad relationship without any remorse. If you’ve been through a difficult breakup, then it can be hard to let go of the person that left.
For some people, it takes years to get over the person who broke their heart. Getting back out into social circles and into love life again can be an emotional minefield sometimes.
Whether you are having thoughts about someone that is still in your life, or you are going through a breakup, here are some ways to reclaim your self-esteem and feel confident again.
Stop comparing yourself to the person that hurt you. Focus on what is good about you: your strengths and character traits that make you a good person. Remind yourself of these things as often as possible to boost your self-esteem.
Hypnosis is a natural way of leaving a bad relationship without feeling guilty or shameful. It can help you move on with your life by freeing you from the negative thoughts and feelings that come with being in an abusive relationship.
To try hypnosis, first, relax. Count your exhales and inhales as you breathe slowly and deeply. Let the tension ease away from your body and focus on releasing any negative emotions in the present moment.
Many people have a hard time dealing with their emotions and they find it difficult to get over a relationship.
Hypnosis is an alternative therapy that can help people get over the relationship by changing their state of mind.
You may be thinking why people choose hypnosis as an alternative therapy. People can find it easier to talk about the breakup in a hypnotic state. Hypnotism is safer than traditional therapies.
The person doesn’t have to experience pain for years because of the breakup. Hypnosis helps with emotional healing and it’s more affordable than other therapies.
If you have questions or comments about how to leave a bad relationship. Leave a comment and I will respond.
Georgiana
Hi Georgiana,
Being in a manipulative relationship is the worst thing which can happen in a relationship. The idea of creating a boundary in such a relationship is good. Though I understand how difficult it would be to stick with it. Only a strong will can let you do so.
A great read for all who undergoing such difficult relationship.
Thanks for sharing.
Regards,
Rohit
Hi Rohit,
Yes, I completely agree that being in a manipulative relationship is the worst thing imaginable and that it is beyond cruel and awful for someone you love to consistently lie to you.
Yes, I believe it is crucial to let someone know what doesn’t work for you anymore before the breakup. I frequently witness breakups followed by reconciliations, so I considered establishing a barrier to give you some space because it might be difficult to try to reconcile with someone who loves you after a breakup.
The terrible thing is that they are so skilled at manipulating you that they could win you back.
We must exercise caution while making decisions in life, recognize when we don’t feel connected to or valued, and then end the relationship because we cannot force someone to change.
It’s time to practice self-love, contemplate, and soak up our own brilliance rather than acting as though we’re desperate for a connection or to keep up appearances.
I am aware that there may be other reasons why people choose to stay put, including fear, and I hope that reading this can assist you in some way when it comes to eventually make a decision rather than doing so hastily.
I believe you have the freedom to select what your future objectives are, but you are not required to tell that individual right away.
I personally never wanted to feel like I had no choice, so when I exited my manipulative relationship, I avoided saying goodbye in person because I assumed they wouldn’t take my apology.
Since he didn’t want to hear any justification for my breaking his heart, I didn’t feel the need to give an explanation when I did it.
He only wanted to be with me, but I didn’t like his ways, so I had to break up. It was painful, but I’m still here ten years later and I’ll be here for another ten.
Ending a relationship can be so hard. Even if you know that it is the best for you. And that is where one sometimes needs to be self centered, and do what you know is best for you.
When dealing with a manipulative partner it becomes tricky, and even more so if they are abusive or aggressive. It is only a strong will and support from helpful friends and family, that will see you through the heartache.
Hi LineCowley,
I concur that it is quite difficult. Strong will, close family and friends, and occasionally a therapist who specializes in this area can assist you in learning more about the difficulties you’ve faced and speaking to you in a way that will reassure you that it wasn’t your fault. You will get to know that you can make changes and that you won’t have to experience this kind of circumstance once more. When things are tough, I appreciate whatever support I can obtain. I don’t mind consulting outside resources as long as the issue is fixed and there is no medication
What a heartbreaking situation for somebody to have to go through. It seems like it could be something that sneaks up on someone, since they constantly see hope within parts of the relationship that are good. You hit the nail on the head with your overview and advice for handling such a process that is so sensitive in nature. I’d imagine it takes a lot of strength and willpower to finally be able to tell yourself that it is time. Therapeutic hypnosis is something I’ve heard positive things about and seems like a good way to disassociate yourself from the reasons you might be staying in the relationship, and be able to leave guilt- and worry-free. Thank you for providing this resource to those who may need this help one day.
Hi Sydney,
Unfortunately, I have personal experience with it, therefore I wanted to be able to show people that they don’t have to continue doing something that is making them unhappy. There is always a way to escape a bad situation so that your soul can recover. With everything going on in the world, I really like listening to hypnosis tapes and feel calm and worry-free. I want to share this with others because it is effective and natural.